It Is Offensive To Call Me “Tré”
It’s been 3 years (soon to be 4) since I stopped using the name “Tré Xavier”, and started using my legal first name, LeNair in my stage name. But there are some who when they see me, still call me ”Tré”. And because of a great difference between “Tré Xavier” and LeNair Xavier, being called ”Tré” gets me very offended.
For both “Tré Xavier” and me now as LeNair Xavier are indeed exhibitionists.
And both for aim to enlighten people on how to achieve (not good, but) great mental and physical sexual health. The difference that causes me to become offended is the fact that as ”Tré Xavier”, I was naive enough to believe that I could use porn to help people achieve this great mental and physical sexual health. Therefore, having a loyalty to the porn industry. As LeNair Xavier, I have come to the realization that porn studios are too much about money to give a damn about humanity, so as much as people like Michael Lucas and Chi Chi LaRue talk a good game about wanting good sexual health for gay men, their actions show otherwise. So as LeNair Xavier, I no longer have a loyalty to the porn industry. For it is a let down to the community, itself, and all of those who are in it. Even if they don’t see it.
So the reason I am offended by being called "Tré" is because LeNair Xavier is a long overdue upgrade from "Tré Xavier". Most people have acknowledged the change. Some of whom I’m quite surprised by. Which tells me that they probably saw me as the upgrade of LeNair all along.
However, there are a few that still need to be reminded. For not calling or introducing as LeNair tells me that you are not acknowledging that upgrade.